Friday, October 01, 2010

We have an update on “our” Aleksa!

Here’s the short story… a missionary emailed me when I was on my way to Ukraine.  Through several exchanged emails we discovered that she had ministered at the institution where Aleksa is!  We exchanged photos of her, and she is alive and well :).  I shared with the missionary about the Ds conference, and the missionary group she ministers with came and we met in person!  She’s a very sweet person inside and out, and so is her ministering team! 

They went to the institution yesterday and brought a photo of our family to the director.  They told him about us again, and he wasn’t much interested, but they broached the subject of adoption with him.  His response was for us to prepare our papers, come, and we would talk.

Now… we weren’t even considering adopting two children right now!  In fact, we only applied to immigration for one child.  We aren’t sure we’re prepared to add both an 8 year old and little Wesley (who IS coming home—no question there) to our family.  We don’t know whether Aleksa would be ‘released’ even if we do try. 

But we can’t ignore that the director has invited us to come.  And we can’t ignore the timing of this encounter with the missionary.  And we can’t ignore that though we applied to immigration for only one child… we received approval for two.

So we’re taking one step at a time.  We’ve committed ourselves to walk as God leads.  We’ve said “yes”, not necessarily to adoption, but to staying open to whatever God has planned.  One step at a time, as God leads. 

We can’t do this alone. 

Please pray with us.  For clarity, discernment, peace, and most of all, for Aleksa and her future.  Whether it be here or there.  I will update again soon, fill you in as we walk this out.  For now, here’s “our” Aleksa, age 8…

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34 comments:

  1. so did you meet her when you were there last? and why isn't she able to be adopted? she is beautiful

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  2. how incredible she she is alive and well. I am so happy you have been blessed with the update on 'your' little girl.

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  3. WOW. That's a whole lotta "signs". Will definitely pray for you. What a blessing to know that she is well! I remember my heart sinking when you lost her.

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  4. Oh My Goodness - GOD surely is AMAZING!!!!! WOW!!!!!!

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  5. How amazing! I pray that God gives you clear direction and peace. Whatever happens, I pray that Aleksa continues to be well cared for and loved on.
    I remember the pictures from 2 1/2 years ago - she looks like she's grown a good bit.

    Jenn in Georgia

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  6. Wow.wow.wow.wow! :-)

    Too amazing, So happy to hear that she is doing well after all this time.

    You’re right, you can’t ignore those signs, will be praying for your family over this. This is big, but God is bigger.

    p.s.
    I wish I lived closer to you I’d love to be able to get to know your family better and help out if I could.

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  7. Wow, Meredith! Amazing that the director said that. Will be interesting to see how it all unfolds.

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  8. you're right! you cant ignore all that! hope all turns out perfectly!

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  9. You make me scared to even stand close to you...but you are truly an inspiration as to what God is capable of...and there are surely no such things as coincidences...praying and sending love to you. cathy

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  10. wow. seems like things are falling into place? I will never forget when you couldnt bring her home :( everything happens for a reason...so glad to hear she is doing well! We will be praying for whatever falls into place!

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  11. Prayers - how wonderful that news of little Aleksa has come to you, and with perfect timing! This surely seems like a "God thing"...

    Very best wishes,
    Susan in Ky
    Cousin to Two from Ukraine

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  12. We are with you! Praise God that He reveals Himself to us in such exciting ways.

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  13. That's amazing, nothing but absolutely amazing. What a blessing that she is alive and well, and that you got an update and a photo. This must be very emotional for you! I will definitely pray for clarity and for God's hand to be held over you in protection.

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  14. Wow Meridith.....I kind of had a lil suspicion it was about bringing home more than one!!! I am so excited for you guys as God leads you on this path....We are praying for you all

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  15. you know what *I* think. But I gotta admit, seeing a recent pic of her...brings me to tears. How can I help? get her home, Mer.

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  16. I don't know the back story on this one, and I'd love to hear it! In any case, praying for God's perfect will for your family!

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  17. Oh my Lord, precious Lord! I have chills reading this. The Spirit moves in wonderful ways!

    gcmomblessed

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  18. Me again; I just keep thinking about the significance of the fact that you were going to name her Aleksa FAITH.....

    I do believe she's meant for you, only in God's timing. And God had Emma and Micah for you first - as well as James, Lynae and Wesley!

    He knew you'd have FAITH and wait...!

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  19. I read your story about Aleksa. And there is a reason you found her again. What an amazing story, one that gives me cold chills. praying for you and for her

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  20. Meredith,
    I think I know who she is but I'm not sure. Would you link to a story about her?

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  21. Aleksa is precious! I have been following your blog since you were pursuing her adoption and will be praying with you for the Lord's clear leading!

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  22. I was remembering when you were preparing to go and get Aleksa. I remember you posting a picture of Emma and Briana and how much they looked alike. I remember right then and there, I had a feeling you'd be bringing Emma home. It was one of those, tingly feelings. You were meant to bring Emma home that time. She needed you. Definitely God's timing. Now God's timing is telling you something else. I will pray you get peace and comfort and know God's will.

    Jan

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  23. Wow! God is amazing! I will be praying for your family! That would be totally amazing if you were able to bring Aleska home!

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  24. God is so amazing!!! What a blessing!!!

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  25. Guess that is why our SW tells us to always do a homestudy and immigration approval for two kids, even if you only end up with one?!

    I'm so glad you at least know what is going on with her . . the invitation from the Director is intriguing, to say the least. Praying!

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  26. With God there is no "chance". It has all been ordained since the beginning of time. Praying for God's will in this to be evident and without doubt. How wonderful to here the news about her and see her pic, what a blessing. Praying.

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  27. I went back through the archives and read about Aleksa. I am so excited! That is so amazing! I pray that God would made His will known to you. I pray that God's presense would surround you and your family as you walk out His plan for your lives.

    Isaiah 55:11 "So will My word be which goes forth from My mouth; It will not return to Me empty, without accomplishing what I desire, and without succeeding in the matter for which I sent it."

    Habakkuk 2:3 "For the vision is yet for the appointed time; It hastens toward the goal and it will not fail. Though it tarries, wait for it; For it will certainly come, it will not delay."

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  28. Truly crying here, Meredith. Praise God, Praise God, Praise God!!!
    Joy

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  29. “The Lord is the one who goes ahead of you; He will be with you. He will not fail you or forsake you. Do not fear, or be dismayed.”
    Deuteronomy 31:8
    I love how He moves us when we trust Him to do so. Praying for you and your husband sweet sister ♥

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  30. WOW! What an amazing example of faith and obedience you are! This is just incredible that God may choose to bring your family full-circle in this way! I am so excited to see what God will do next! Praying for strength and discernment for you.

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  31. oh meredith, tears run down my face. I cant imagine how it felt knowing you would not be able able to bring Aleska home and now to know she is well and she may still be a part of your family. God is always so good.
    WHat a story

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  32. I TOLD you that you needed to bring home a girl too, in order to even up the numbers! And as long as you have7 already, what's one more?! Sound meant to be to me!

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  33. All I can say is WOW! Praying and waiting with you to see what God does.

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